So I like this guy brendan. I’ve been friends with him for a few months. I previously went out with his best friend, lets call him tristan. Me and tristan were together for about 4 months. Brendan was always a good friend during my relationship with tristan. But about 2 months into my relationship with tristan I did something horrible. Tristan was getting really jealous of the relationship I had with brendan. He also said brendan really liked me. So he gave me an ultimatum. Cut ties with brendan or its over. Tristan had me wrapped around his finger so I did what I was told. After a little while Brendan and I did act like friends again, especially the day I dumped tristan. So now I’ve been single for about 2 months and I’ve realized how much I like brendan. But after I dumped tristan we don’t hang out as much. But today he bought me and a friend of my I think he likes an amp on a field trip and we talked and flirted a little. And yesterday we were talking in about hair home room and and he had me feel his hair. But our relationship has never been the same since i dumped tristan. I’m not sure if i should tell him what happened 4 months ago or how I would or if that would help a budding dating relationship. Any opinions?